107 Rockland Road, Hendersonville, Tennessee

Family Discipleship Ministry

Navigation Plan

How can we meaningfully celebrate families at various stages of life?

What spiritual disciplines are best established at these stages?

At Hendersonville, we believe that intentionality fosters healthy families. That’s why we offer this Family Discipleship Navigation Plan as families make their way through our Kids’ Ministry and Student Ministry.

Each Checkpoint offers suggestions for fostering relationships in the family, community, and creating faith-forming habits. Checkpoints also detail Celebrations that take place at Hendersonville.

Checkpoints

For the first few years of your new family

Purpose: Establish family practices, adjust to a new and growing family, and find a community that encourages you.

Celebration: Child Dedication

Big 3

  • Fostering relationships within the family: sentences of affirmation and blessings

  • Fostering relationships within the community: establish intentional connections with others

  • Fostering faith-forming habits: define your commitment by writing a commitment statement for your family; this coincides with the Child Dedication

For families with kids 2 years old to Kindergarten

Purpose: Create a space for your family to host meaningful conversations when the pace of life increases.

Celebration: Kindergarten Blessing on Promotion Sunday; High School students partner with Kindergarten students to bless them throughout the year

Big 3

  • Fostering relationships within the family: set and establish priorities (for example, how we steward our time, what we say yes to, etc.)

  • Fostering relationships within the community: connect with a Small Group

  • Fostering faith-forming habits: creating spirit-empowered rhythms in everyday life (morning, drive time, meal time, bed time, etc.)

For families with kids in Grades 1–4

Purpose: Nurture curiosity in faith to grow your child’s desire to trust in the character of God.

Celebration: Establish Class Champions that recognize and celebrate your child’s gifts and talents.

Big 3

  • Fostering relationships within the family: set an intentional time to establish memories with your child

  • Fostering relationships within the community: seek out opportunities to serve others together

  • Fostering faith-forming habits: empower your child to participate and take ownership in your family’s daily faith-forming rhythms

For families with kids in Grades 5–8

Purpose: Engage your child’s interest and affirm their personal journey.

Celebration: A family retreat with parents/guardians and their child.

Big 3

  • Fostering relationships within the family: affirming your child’s value within the family

  • Fostering relationships within the community: finding people who constantly reaffirm your child’s value

  • Fostering faith-forming habits: establish your presence to create a safe space; create an anchor point (“I know where my home is…”)

For families with kids in Grades 9–11

Purpose: Fuel passion so your child keeps pursuing authentic faith and finds significance in their faith community.

Celebration: Leadership Retreat

Big 3

  • Fostering relationships within the family: shift your focus from managing their faith to being someone who coaches them through their walk

  • Fostering relationships within the community: encouraging partnership in a ministry context within the church

  • Fostering faith-forming habits: coaching your child to initiate and own their relationship with God; encourage alone time through parents’ modeling alone time

For families with graduating students

Purpose: Mobilize your child’s potential by listening, guiding, and encouraging them as they launch into adulthood.

Celebration: Senior Sunday

Big 3

  • Fostering relationships within the family: book-end affirmations utilized in Essentials

  • Fostering relationships within the community: partner with a Kindergarten student, participating in a mentorship within the congregation

  • Fostering faith-forming habits: core habits (spiritual disciplines to carry with them to college)

Resources

Coming soon.